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If you are committed to a world of fewer broken men, a world where children are valued and not neglected, start with your children and your family.
Just as your child wants your unconditional love and encouragement, you want him to love you, to love himself, to love other people, and to love the world around him. You express your love through hugs, playing, and doing things together. You encourage him to share his feelings, fears, and frustrations. At the same time, you give him the freedom to grow and to experience the bigger world. You want him to have an exciting life of his own, knowing that his relationship with you is [url=http://www.sisr.fr]Doudoune Moncler[/url] secure and predictable.

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Despite energetic protestation, denial, and endless rhetoric to the contrary, the neglect of children is extensive in systematic in virtually all communities, states, and throughout the country. If you doubt that, look at the inadequacy of public education, health care for many children, inadequate housing, drug abuse and crime, family violence, and the myriad of other ways children are being neglected. Look carefully because what you see is the very real and ongoing commitment of community, state, and national leaders to adult maladjustment, what Douglas calls "broken men."
It's certainly true that some children [url=http://www.tesangay.com/barbour.php]barbour deutschland[/url] grow to be maladjusted adults, despite receiving appropriate developmental support and nurturing throughout their childhood. This sad reality gives proof to the conclusion that building strong children is far from easy and is occasionally not possible. It's also true that inadequate developmental support and nurturing nearly guarantee that children will grow up to be maladjusted adults. Further, the severity of adult maladjustment is proportional to the degree of inadequacy: the more severe the neglect, the more severe the adult maladjustment.
The hidden truth here is that the resulting adult maladjustment is usually only partially repairable; and far too frequently, the damage is not repairable at all. The [url=http://www.batfriendtrust.it]hogan outlet[/url] long term effects of child neglect are usually serious and often permanent. A family, community, or [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/abercrombie/]abercrombie[/url] society that neglects its children is committed to the creation of maladjusted adults. It's as simple as that.
In addition, you want your child to respect you, to respect himself, to respect other people, and to respect the world about him. You know that much of his attitude toward himself and toward the world about him comes from your attitude about him.
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"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." -- Frederick Douglas
Whether this is true or not is certainly less than obvious. The lack of clarity starts with the meaning of "strong children" and "broken men." The ambiguity extends to include how one might go about building a child, strong or not, and the skills and tools needed to repair broken men. If one posits that "strong children" are kids who are well adjusted and that "broken men" are adults who are maladjusted, the aphorism is likely true.
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