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So seriously what is it about moms/women and the cliques. I really find it rather funny. When I was home with ds for 6 months I participated in our local MOPS group. It was all fine and dandy - not great - until I mentioned that I would be going back to work. Eww they did not like that! HA. Now that I'm home I trying to find things to do to keep us *busy.* Today we walked the mall then then went to Chick Fil A for lunch and some play time at the indoor play gym (it was really cold today). I was sitting there watching ds play while eating my sandwich. There were these 2 moms at the table next to me doing the same thing. When they finished eating they joined their kids inside the play gym. They were just sitting inside talking. I finished my meal and went inside too. Seriously they got up and left! Would it have been that terrible to hi to me, look at me, acknowledge me? relly don't think it was me but I did think it was weird. I even put on my dress sweats today!
I will start by saying women can be bitches. There are always going to be mean girls and cliques,[url=http://parajumpersonline.webmium.com/][b]Kodiak Jackets Online PARAJUMPERS[/b][/url]. It ws SO incredibly rude for them not to acknowledge your presence. BUT I will also play devil's advocate.
Maybe the two you saw are close friends who don't often get to see each other? Maybe they were talking about something personal and didn't want anyone else to hear? going to say this and it will probably sound rude although I don't mean it to be. BUT I have enough friends. I have a lot of good friends that I don't nearly have enough time to see or talk too. I really don't want or need "new" friends. When I go out with my kids,[url=http://kaufenmonclerjacken.albirank.net/][b]Moncler fabrikverkauf Moncler Herren Jacken Moncler Jacken Outlet Österreich[/b][/url], I'm friendly and social but I'm not looking to make friends because I can't fully invest in the relationship. Does that make sense? I know it makes me sound really rude but I feel the opposite. Why would I try to make new friends if I can only half-ass the relationship. KWIM?
As expected, Erin and I think exactly alike. I was going to write similar to what she did but she wrote it better. I have a lot of friends from long ago who I only see a few times a year. I find myself very anti-social when I'm in one on one playdate b/c I want to spend time with that person. When it is more than just 2, I tend to be more open b/c usually that means a more laid back playdate. I'm having a hard time right now b/c our group is so big and the more people the more uncomfortable I get. Like Erin, I just don't have the time to invest in new friends, if I by chance meet someone and we click,[url=http://rogervivieroutlets.webmium.com/][b]Discount Roger Vivier Shoes[/b][/url], fabulous,[url=http://giuseppezanottioutlets.webmium.com/][b]Giuseppe Zanotti shoes outlet sale[/b][/url], but I don't go out of my way.
Oh ERIN!
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When I was in college, my roommate's mother told us that our closest friends in life would be made when we share a stressful or difficult experience. That has turned out to be true, as that roommate is still a dear friend of mine after navigating college together,[url=http://woolrichoutletitalia.albirank.net/][b]http://woolrichoutletitalia.albirank.net/[/b][/url], and then my post-college partner in navigating the working world as a single woman is another of my friends for life.
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You are right that the ladies at the library or Chick-fil-a or even in the online meetup groups may not share enough with me. What I need to do is wait for or scope out that other new-to-the-area mom. We can both discover Syracuse for our kids and figure out how to find babysitters,[url=http://merrellfootwearsizechart.webmium.com/][b]http://merrellfootwearsizechart.webmium.com/[/b][/url], enroll in nursery schools,[url=http://parajumpersoutletitalia.albirank.net/][b]parajumpers outlet italia parajumpers Parka Piumini online shop abbigliamento[/b][/url], dress our children for 200" of snow, etc.
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