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Breaking Out Of Break-Up Distress
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By Warren Lee
Break ups are not only painful, they throw your life completely upside down. Sometimes it is so disturbing that people lose their will to live. Yet, worse happens when people learn to live with it. They live on, with no regard for life. Even if they try to enjoy and love their lives, they end up failed and frustrated. So, is there really no hope?
As long as there is 'life', there will be 'hope'; and when there is 'hope', there comes a 'will'. Apparently, [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] we all know where 'will' ultimately leads to. Sounds confusing or stupid? Read on and you'll learn what we are talking about.
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What's Holding You Back
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Most people fail to move on because they are holding on to a lot [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] of things that might hold them in the past. They can be letters, photos, messages and gifts, etc, but most importantly these are memories. Sometimes, even a small insignificant event can take you back in the state of regret and remorse. So, whether you throw away those letters and gifts or not, the most important thing is to be prepared to throw away those memories as well.
So, throwing away the physical things doesn't always help everyone. You can put it all in a box and hide it where you won't have to see it again and again. In time, you'll forget about the box and the things, and the memories.
What to Do With That Heart
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The best way to cope with these emotions is to accept them - and that in a positive manner. Emotions might hurt you initially, but actually they only help you in being stronger. You just have to give them time.
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Now that you are waiting for the perfect girl, analyze if your life is worth her or not. While in the previous relationship, you might have been seriously overlooking your career and your future. With no wedding to prepare for in the near future, all you have to do is live for today and live for your own future. Divert you energy and finances towards your career.
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